So the latest is that I did figure out why I was idling so high in pk/n. It is because of the Spark Bias - Warm parameter. I was running this at 0 when it should be set to 10. Not sure exactly why but changing it dropped my rpm from 1250 to 950.

I have not messed with park to drive steps parameter. I would say dont mess with it. I have learned to only change what is absolutely needed otherwise you could mess things up drastically.